Sunday, January 25, 2009

I Am Just Sickened By This...

I got this horrible comment on my last post. I will not post it here but you can click the link to read it, if you choose.

This disgusting pervert commented "anonymously". He must be very ashamed of who he is to do this. This is a Mommy Blog. I write about my family, my beautiful daughter, my husband and my life. How he found my blog, I do not know, but for him to take a post about my baby getting my sarcasm gene and leave that kind of comment just shows how sick, perverted and disgusting he truly is.

I discipline my child. I spank her as a consequence to some of her actions. I am trying to raise a good, compassionate, God-fearing, Christian, moral human being. Giving my child rules, and making her follow them, does not make me an abusive parent nor does it mean my child is going to grow up to be a pervert.

I wonder if this person is a parent or not. I feel sorry for his kids if he is though. What I do know is if you don't have the cahones to post your name, then you are a coward. He targeted my child, or at least that's how I feel right now. It is abhorrent. I wish he had left his name so that I could report him, but that is not how people like that work.

I am debating on whether or not to block anonymous users from commenting on my site. My friend Jeannie says I should, but my husband says I will lose traffic if I do. I just don't know. I will not stop blogging, but I need to find a way to prevent things like this from happening again.

And this incident is making me even more freaked out because I recently read
this article and the follow up over at MomDot.com. There are some truly sick people out there and it is seemingly becoming harder and harder to protect our children and ourselves from them. It makes me scared and very sad.
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8 comments:

Bee and Rose said...

This is so very upsetting! I'm so sorry this moron found your blog and abused you this way...for that is what it is...abuse. I wish there was some way to report this jackass.

No one NO ONE has the right to tell you how to discipline your child. That is between you and God. Everyone has their own ways of dealing with this. This verbal assault on you is completely disgusting and again, I am so sorry that it happened to you.

Just know that blogging Moms will stand behind you and support you on this:)

Hang tough, girl!

LadyStyx said...

Sick. You're right, to leave a comment like that and not have the *censored* to leave your name....definitely a coward.

The Head Eagle said...

Not only is he/she a pervert, but definitely a coward! I am very sorry that someone would leave you comment like that.

I personally would block anonymous comments. That doesn't keep them from visiting, but at least that way they can't be heard!

Kirsty said...

Oh UGH! You poor thing:-(
Maybe turn off anon comments for a few weeks, they'll find someone else to bother...That is just awful. I would have felt sick getting a comment like that...((hugs)))

Jo said...

I am so sorry this happened to you! I do not allow anonymous comments and my traffic is great! Hugs to you! Hang in there! Mombloggers unite!

ChicagoLady said...

I'm sorry you were left such a terrible and disgusting comment. None of us get into this wanting stuff like that to happen.

If you have a traffic monitor, and if it includes IP numbers, that might help track down who/where, if you wanted to report them. I'm not sure what Blogger's policy is on that stuff.

I personally have come to the conclusion that if you aren't adult enough to leave a name/user ID when you leave a comment, then you shouldn't be leaving the comment in the first place.

Thandi said...

I also use my hand as a form of discipline. This guy needs serious help. Whether he was serious or not, it's still gross.I do allow anonymous comments, but do what suits you best!

Queenie Jeannie said...

How many commenters go around "anonymously"?? Not many and usually people who want to hide behind their computers. You do what's best for you.

 

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